fcgamer | 5,015 Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 (edited) My brother and I were having a debate about this tonight, whether it's okay or not to date your ex's siblings. We both recognise that in a perfect world, such a situation would never even come up, but what about if you date a woman, for example, yet you and her sister are a much better match? Or a similar situation, only with a pair of brothers, and the ex-girlfriend fancying the other brother. We're not discussing and debating things such as dating or f**king the sibling out of revenge, anger, or to make the ex jealous, rather at some other point down the line dating the sibling, just as one would normally date anyone else. Thoughts? Edited July 21, 2021 by fcgamer 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeatherRebel5150 | 1,102 Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 One of my best friends(might as well be a brother) was going out with a girl that I ended up dating after him. We were together for 4yrs. Never was any problems between any of us. But then again we were reasonable people that use logic more than emotions in those situations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hammerfestus | 4,107 Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 Is it ok with me if I schtup her sister? Yeah. Is it ok with her? Probably not. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesRobot | 6,030 Events Team · Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 47 minutes ago, Hammerfestus said: schtup Hahaha! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tenjikuronin | 1,839 Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 Zarin Mehta married his brother Zubin Mehta's wife (Carmen Lasky) after they divorced. Zubin and Carmen had two children as well, meaning their step-dad was also their uncle. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phart010 | 1,790 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 It’s totally ok Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Code Monkey | 2,145 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 A close friend of mine dated a guy when they were teenagers, broke up with him and married his twin brother. Now they have 2 kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estil | 1,292 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 okay =/= smart...just saying... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CMR | 543 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 It's always good to have a spare. 1 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrWunderful | 2,932 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 Dear Penthouse forum- I was with my sister-law and wife and my wife went to the store…. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
O.G. CIB | 416 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 No thanks 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
doner24 | 1,227 Moderator · Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 Nah, enough people out there to not muddy the waters so much. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gloves | 12,269 Administrator · Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 My wife is an only child. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GPX | 1,411 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 This thread reminds me of high school where a mate used to date a girl. They broke up and then dated her close friend in the friendship inner circle. Then he broke up again and dated another close friend in that same friendship inner circle. 3 girls within the same inner circle! I remember being admiring of the guy and wondered what his secret was back then. But then again, I didn't really care too much cos I was too busy with games. Anyway, where were we? Oh yes! I think it's ok to date an ex's sibling if it's out of genuine love and sincerity to commit for long-term. It's a little weird, I wouldn't do it, but I can accept it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrWunderful | 2,932 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 24 minutes ago, Gloves said: My wife is an only child. My wife and I are both only children. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesRobot | 6,030 Events Team · Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThePhleo | 2,273 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 13 years ago I flirted with my wife’s older sister for a couple of days. It lead nowhere, and we parted ways before ever even meeting up. 3 years later I started chatting with my wife, and here we are today 9 and a half years later married with two children and an angel baby. I say it’s fine as long as there’s a mutual understanding amongst all three parties and no romantic feelings for the one left out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn | 31 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 No, it's kinda messed up to even consider it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estil | 1,292 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 6 hours ago, CMR said: It's always good to have a spare. I don't think we're talking about spare tires or spare controllers here... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug | 5,124 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 8 hours ago, MrWunderful said: Dear Penthouse forum- I was with my sister-law and wife and my wife went to the store…. This alone makes it okay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tabonga | 2,533 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 10 hours ago, MrWunderful said: My wife and I are both only children. When do you plan to grow up? (j/k) 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrWunderful | 2,932 Posted July 22, 2021 Share Posted July 22, 2021 1 hour ago, Tabonga said: When do you plan to grow up? (j/k) Only adults And Never, Btw 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estil | 1,292 Posted July 23, 2021 Share Posted July 23, 2021 14 hours ago, Tabonga said: When do you plan to grow up? (j/k) Never! I'll always be a Toys R Us kid! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkTone | 1,015 Posted July 23, 2021 Share Posted July 23, 2021 No, because I wouldn't want that to happen to me either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
spacepup | 2,488 Administrator · Posted July 23, 2021 Share Posted July 23, 2021 The answer in my opinion, as with most things in life, is it depends on the situation and the people involved. I know some people who would be absolutely fine with this, and have no problem. And then I know other people who would find it extremely awkward and uncomfortable or even offensive. I mean, if I broke up with someone, I wouldn't go out of my WAY to date their sibling necessarily. And it's also a 'problem' if, say, the ex would be really upset about it. Because if the new relationship could be a real thing, then that could cause problems down the line, and unnecessary family drama that you may have to deal with forever. So it really just depends on the exact dynamics of the situation and the people involved. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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