MrWunderful | 2,927 Posted August 17, 2023 Share Posted August 17, 2023 10 minutes ago, Gloves said: Good man. I am known professionally for how thorough I am 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
docile tapeworm | 4,206 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 Well @Richardhead that’s one way to win the day 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WalterWhiteJr. | 1,177 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 I think you should consider working on your relationship with yourself rather than these married women. I understand the idea that being alone is hard. But sometimes we must get comfortable being uncomfortable. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estil | 1,267 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 On 8/16/2023 at 8:29 PM, Richardhead said: I just can’t seem to help myself. They are all very attractive and I’ve known them all for a very long time. I’m posting this here because I don’t know what to do, and you guys/gals have had some pretty good advice for me in the past. I feel like this shit is spiraling out of control. I never meant for any of this to go down the way it has. Am I a dumbass or just very confused ? Edit: I love all three of these women. All have been good friends for a long time. All I know is, what you're doing is all but certain to NOT end well. I don't see any way, none, this would turn out good for anyone. As Steven Crowder would say, change my mind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesRobot | 5,844 Events Team · Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 55 minutes ago, Estil said: All I know is, what you're doing is all but certain to NOT end well. This man knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estil | 1,267 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, JamesRobot said: This man knows. Umm, that's not exactly true in a way. As a matter of fact I'm asexual ("ace") meaning I have no real desire or interest in sex. Though I didn't really find out for sure until after I married. Still it did explain why I thought the whole "saving it for marriage" (which is ideally what you should do) seemed a bit too easy!! So I don't know if I'm really in any position to say this (I mean I don't really know what it's like to face for real sexual temptation and given all the horror stories I've heard of just what can go wrong I think me being born "ace" was definitely for the best!!), but you (the OP) are putting yourself at great risk of getting one or more of those women pregnant (plus you being on the hook for child support) as well as getting HIV or any other STD. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS 'SAFE' SEX. PS: @JamesRobot This isn't funny. Edited August 18, 2023 by Estil 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptOut | 8,895 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 10 hours ago, Reed Rothchild said: 10 hours ago, BlackVega said: Can you elaborate more with less swearing? Well, first of all those alleged married ladies decided to cheat on their own husbands too so, who is in the wrong here? Most probably both parties overall. Actually why married girls, can't the OP find single ladies or single mums where there are tons of them? Again, what even is the purpose of this thread here? Expand Rich needed to unload his burden By the sounds of things he's been "unloading his burden" a little too much, that's why he's in this mess in the first place, lol! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptOut | 8,895 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 49 minutes ago, Estil said: PS: @JamesRobot This isn't funny. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Estil | 1,267 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 1 minute ago, OptOut said: ............. Seriously the OP is putting himself in real danger and trouble. I know I'm usually known for fun light hearted sort of banner around here but I'm really worried and concerned for OP that if it hasn't happened already, he could end up in some major trouble that he'll never be able to come back from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptOut | 8,895 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 4 minutes ago, Estil said: ............. Seriously the OP is putting himself in real danger and trouble. I know I'm usually known for fun light hearted sort of banner around here but I'm really worried and concerned for OP that if it hasn't happened already, he could end up in some major trouble that he'll never be able to come back from. Umm... THAT'S the JOKE! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeatherRebel5150 | 1,065 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 I haven’t read through this entire thing, so I don’t know if this has been answered. Do any of these woman have non-adult kids? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richardhead | 2,874 Posted August 18, 2023 Author Share Posted August 18, 2023 13 minutes ago, LeatherRebel5150 said: I haven’t read through this entire thing, so I don’t know if this has been answered. Do any of these woman have non-adult kids? Nope. All are over the age of 21. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptOut | 8,895 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 35 minutes ago, Richardhead said: Nope. All are over the age of 21. Daughters... 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richardhead | 2,874 Posted August 18, 2023 Author Share Posted August 18, 2023 5 minutes ago, OptOut said: Daughters... All males man. Get your head out of the gutter. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
OptOut | 8,895 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 1 minute ago, Richardhead said: All males man. Get your head out of the gutter. Damn, this coulda gotten REAL complicated... Heck, maybe it still could! 1 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richardhead | 2,874 Posted August 18, 2023 Author Share Posted August 18, 2023 4 minutes ago, OptOut said: Damn, this coulda gotten REAL complicated... Heck, maybe it still could! I’m not that smooth man. I do have to say that I’ve grown to really like women my age or older. That 46-56 age range is the sweet spot for me. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fcgamer | 4,792 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 19 minutes ago, Richardhead said: I’m not that smooth man. I do have to say that I’ve grown to really like women my age or older. That 46-56 age range is the sweet spot for me. Hahaha it's funny cuz the fiddler who's in my band is 55 and he refuses to go for women his age... he'd rather just go without and bitch about his aching balls, unless one of the ten dogs living with him sucks him off, I honestly don't want to know lol. But 55 in Asian years looks 45, and 46 looks 36, plus has money and experience and expertise so... Sign me up! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fcgamer | 4,792 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 On a different note, a Mormon guy I used to know abused and then divorced his (Asian) wife, breaking up the family (they have a young daughter). He then went on to start dating a different Asian woman before the divorce was finalized, and a few weeks before he was to propose to her, he insisted they share their sexual history. He only had been with his ex, she had been with at least 36 other dudes (she wasn't Mormon). Needless to say he posted this all online asking for advice, but ultimately married the woman anyway, despite feeling incredibly insecure. I don't mean to wish ill will upon anyone, but I've already started popping the ol popcorn. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
captmorgandrinker | 1,651 Administrator · Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 14 hours ago, JamesRobot said: More of a modern day Rico Suavé. So you aren't one of the five people that bought his follow-up CD? HIS NAME IS NOT RICO 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkTone | 989 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 Been dancing around what to type here. I think cheating is fucked up. AFAIK, I've never been cheated on, but I would hate it if I was. That being said, @Richardheadhas been cool with me. I hope you get things sorted. As for online dating. I was hesitant for years, but took the plunge. 4 dates in 4 months. Been with number 4 for over 3 years, and recently got engaged. I thought I was gonna die single, now, I'm living proof that it's possible. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cartman | 195 Posted August 18, 2023 Share Posted August 18, 2023 What value would any of these women bring you if it were to get more serious? (That's aside from any of those guys finding out what you've done and hurting you.) You can't guarantee that you won't get deeper feelings. The relationship will already have a bad foundation since you never met on better circumstances. Also there's the risk you'll get cheated on aswell. You don't know how big it is - but you do know first hand that she's cheated. You should let them all fizzle out. Stop having time to see them until it dies out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkTone | 989 Posted August 19, 2023 Share Posted August 19, 2023 A friend of mine met a girl at work, who already had a boyfriend. He convinced her to cheat, then break up with him. My friend is now married to her, with kids. I did call him out, saying "what if she cheats on you?" His reply was "she won't"... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug | 5,105 Posted August 19, 2023 Share Posted August 19, 2023 On 8/18/2023 at 7:06 AM, Richardhead said: That 46-56 age range is the sweet spot for me. Everybody hide your grandmothers, Rich is coming to bingo night! 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug | 5,105 Posted August 19, 2023 Share Posted August 19, 2023 15 hours ago, DarkTone said: A friend of mine met a girl at work, who already had a boyfriend. He convinced her to cheat, then break up with him. My friend is now married to her, with kids. I did call him out, saying "what if she cheats on you?" His reply was "she won't"... Speaking from experience, not only will she cheat, she will cheat with her ex that she cheated on the first time. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Richardhead | 2,874 Posted August 19, 2023 Author Share Posted August 19, 2023 1 hour ago, Bearcat-Doug said: Everybody hide your grandmothers, Rich is coming to bingo night! That’s actually not a bad idea. One of the ladies is actually a grandmother, and she has a kid that’s my age. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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