IOW, once you got over the initial shock. But it sounds like you are stepping up to the plate and know just what to do. I'd like to think I was like that when my late wife sadly passed away...which I can't believe it already a little over two years ago. And just as the community here was so supportive of me then, you Cody shouldn't be the least bit surprised at all that we are doing the same for you.
As Red Green would say, I'm pulling for ya...we're all in this together.