docile tapeworm 3,672 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 whats the reason for not replying? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThePhleo 2,007 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 (edited) I sometimes don't reply simply because I forget because I get too many DM's, Text, Emails, @'s and Alerts in a single day on different platforms because I'm constantly messaging people about rare stuff and information. I just went through my messages here on VGS alone and found out I owe someone $20 for NWC photos :V Edited October 6, 2020 by ThePhleo 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug 4,439 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 I'm guessing the price was too high for them. They should still let you know though. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RH 4,221 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 39 minutes ago, ThePhleo said: I sometimes don't reply simply because I forget because I get too many DM's, Text, Emails, @'s and Alerts in a single day on different platforms because I'm constantly messaging people about rare stuff and information. I just went through my messages here on VGS alone and found out I owe someone $20 for NWC photos :V But you did get back to them. It might have taken a month, but you responded. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
docile tapeworm 3,672 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Author Share Posted October 6, 2020 19 minutes ago, Bearcat-Doug said: I'm guessing the price was too high for them. so its like a "f you"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug 4,439 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 2 minutes ago, docile tapeworm said: so its like a "f you"? I'm guessing it's more of a "they don't want to pay the asking price" than anything. It would still be common courtesy to let you know that they aren't interested so you're not holding it for them in case other people do want it. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
docile tapeworm 3,672 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Author Share Posted October 6, 2020 4 minutes ago, Bearcat-Doug said: I'm guessing it's more of a "they don't want to pay the asking price" than anything. It would still be common courtesy to let you know that they aren't interested so you're not holding it for them in case other people do want it. i guess so. i dont hold items for anyone unless they make a commitment to buy. i just dont understand inquiring about a price, receiving it and then not replying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug 4,439 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 1 minute ago, docile tapeworm said: i guess so. i dont hold items for anyone unless they make a commitment to buy. i just dont understand inquiring about a price, receiving it and then not replying. I guess it's laziness or they just forget about it. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Deadeye 1,567 Homebrew Team · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 Two guesses Just curious about your price, no intention of purchase at any price. Your price was vastly different than their expectation (right or wrong). The gap was so large between the two, they didn't even offer a counter. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tanooki 4,696 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 I do that very thing. If someone doesn't list a price, and I ask, and depending what they come back it goes three ways. I reply in the positive, I reply with a maybe negative(counter), or I just am done with you then and there. Why would I not reply? Because you're f'ing nuts and either clearly too stupid to realize you're not selling gold bricks or you're scum and looking for a sucker. Either way I'm done dealing with you and it's not worth wasting my time getting out some crayons to make it simple for you. At that point you're not worth my time so I just stop bothering to respond as it's easier that way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scrobins 1,418 Moderator · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 I’ve had the opposite problem where I reach out to a seller to ask about something in their FS thread. Then nothing. I see they’ve logged on, I see they’ve read my PM, but there’s no response. It’s ok if you don’t have what I’m asking about anymore, just tell me so and update your thread. Do you not like money? 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug 4,439 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 1 minute ago, Scrobins said: I’ve had the opposite problem where I reach out to a seller to ask about something in their FS thread. Then nothing. I see they’ve logged on, I see they’ve read my PM, but there’s no response. It’s ok if you don’t have what I’m asking about anymore, just tell me so and update your thread. Do you not like money? It's always fun when you message a seller and can't get a price. I'm literally saying name your price and get no response. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Scrobins 1,418 Moderator · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 1 minute ago, Bearcat-Doug said: It's always fun when you message a seller and can't get a price. I'm literally saying name your price and get no response. And stranger still when it’s a member who isn’t very engaged here and whose ENTIRE presence revolves around their one FS thread. So I know I didn’t get lost in your inbox. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bearcat-Doug 4,439 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 5 minutes ago, Scrobins said: And stranger still when it’s a member who isn’t very engaged here and whose ENTIRE presence revolves around their one FS thread. So I know I didn’t get lost in your inbox. Agreed. That is also odd. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Code Monkey 1,755 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Share Posted October 6, 2020 If the price isn't right for me I won't respond. Why would I? I'm done with the conversation and I've moved on. What's even worse is when someone asks me for a price, I tell them and then they respond with, "OK." You just wasted my time having to go and check the message, I would have preferred nothing at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
docile tapeworm 3,672 Member · Posted October 6, 2020 Author Share Posted October 6, 2020 (edited) 3 hours ago, Tanooki said: I do that very thing. If someone doesn't list a price, and I ask, and depending what they come back it goes three ways. I reply in the positive, I reply with a maybe negative(counter), or I just am done with you then and there. Why would I not reply? Because you're f'ing nuts and either clearly too stupid to realize you're not selling gold bricks or you're scum and looking for a sucker. Either way I'm done dealing with you and it's not worth wasting my time getting out some crayons to make it simple for you. At that point you're not worth my time so I just stop bothering to respond as it's easier that way. 1 hour ago, Code Monkey said: If the price isn't right for me I won't respond. Why would I? I'm done with the conversation and I've moved on. What's even worse is when someone asks me for a price, I tell them and then they respond with, "OK." You just wasted my time having to go and check the message, I would have preferred nothing at all. damn. i feel like its disrespectful to ask for a price only to ignore someone once they have given an answer. Edited October 6, 2020 by docile tapeworm 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ausden 322 Member · Posted October 7, 2020 Share Posted October 7, 2020 I can take a hint.... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
docile tapeworm 3,672 Member · Posted October 7, 2020 Author Share Posted October 7, 2020 56 minutes ago, Ausden said: I can take a hint.... lol yes... yes. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesRobot 5,118 Events Team · Posted October 7, 2020 Share Posted October 7, 2020 5 hours ago, docile tapeworm said: damn. i feel like its disrespectful to ask for a price only to ignore someone once they have given an answer. Yeah. Especially if something is for offer and you throw out a price on request. You at least deserve a "thanks." 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
docile tapeworm 3,672 Member · Posted October 7, 2020 Author Share Posted October 7, 2020 24 minutes ago, JamesRobot said: Yeah. Especially if something is for offer and you throw out a price on request. You at least deserve a "thanks." id even take an insult. or a lefty! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tulpa 2,993 Member · Posted October 7, 2020 Share Posted October 7, 2020 5 hours ago, docile tapeworm said: damn. i feel like its disrespectful to ask for a price only to ignore someone once they have given an answer. I'm with Skinny on this, a quick little reply of "Thanks" doesn't hurt anything. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hammerfestus 3,237 Member · Posted October 7, 2020 Share Posted October 7, 2020 (edited) What sort of weird asses are wandering around here ignoring people who take the time to give you a quote like you asked? It’s douchey rude. Edited October 7, 2020 by Hammerfestus 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jicsan 532 Member · Posted October 7, 2020 Share Posted October 7, 2020 16 hours ago, Scrobins said: I’ve had the opposite problem where I reach out to a seller to ask about something in their FS thread. Then nothing. I see they’ve logged on, I see they’ve read my PM, but there’s no response. This has been most of my experiences. It's frustrating. I'm not even going to bother running around for a price anymore. Unless it's something super rare, just list the price in the thread. If it says FO in the thread title, I'm not even likely to click it anymore. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
docile tapeworm 3,672 Member · Posted October 7, 2020 Author Share Posted October 7, 2020 $20 says my inbox gets trolled hard lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tanooki 4,696 Member · Posted October 8, 2020 Share Posted October 8, 2020 On 10/6/2020 at 7:25 PM, docile tapeworm said: damn. i feel like its disrespectful to ask for a price only to ignore someone once they have given an answer. And I understand that, but I find it equally disrespectful for a seller to either maliciously try and rip off a buyer whether it was with intent or out of incompetence as you should know what you're selling and what it is worth. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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